What fed me up is when one keeps complaining about something or someone, but one never gets rid out of the situation. Like someone keeps crying about her man abuses her emotionally and physically, about her man keeps cheating on her for many time etc. And she's still with that man and keep calling people and complaining about her heart broken! Gezzz ...
What really annoys me is someone keeps complaining about his boss behind the boss' back, but in front of the boss, he (almost) kisses his boss' a$$! Well, double dealing is a good and smart universal law that most people (they think so) love to play safe! kakaka .... Chính bản thân họ cũng biết rõ rằng sự thật thì 1 ngày sẽ bị phanh phui kia mà! Hay là họ cho rằng cái mặt nạ họ đeo sẽ không khi nào bị lột?
Và khi người ta biết ra thì sao? Dĩ nhiên là chẳng ai còn tin tưởng hắn nữa! kakakakak.... What irritates me is someone keeps teaching his children everyday about hating his neighbor next door since the day they were born. He calls his neighbor những từ ngữ miệt thị, khinh khi, những từ ngữ thô tục và negative. He teaches his children to hate the neighbor with killing theme songs whose containing violent words such as: tiêu diệt, đánh giết, căm thù, rửa hận etc. He makes his children learning by heart the hatred poems. Gradually, the children establish a concept, a picture, a belief in their heads about hating, disgusting, and/or killing the neighbor is the right thing to do, is something that they should do to prove their love, faithfulness, trustworthiness, loyalty, fidelity to their father. In my opinion, it's unethical to teach a child, especially 4-5 yrs old about violence, killing, fighting, hatred, gunning down someone. It's unethical to teach children that it's fine/good and should be so proud to kill someone cruelly, brutally, ruthlessly, cold-bloodedly, mercilessly like this poem:
"Ta mài lưỡi cuốc
Ta uốn lưỡi liềm
Ta vót gậy nhọn
Ta rũa mác dài"
The truth is, I'm not annoyed because of these violent lessons. That is how and what he'd chosen to raise his children; in fact, I was once his child. But the thing I found funny is that the father seems to hate the neighbor so much, but he doesn't hate the neighbor's money, goods or market. He was so happy when the neighbor took away the embargo to normalize the relation; he excitedly hoped for a better life after this event. He was so happy and made it a great deal when the neighbor visited his house. He'd taught his children to loathe the neighbor, but he on the other hand, found it was an honor to visit and shake hand with the neighbor for an economic trade. I don’t say he's wrong when he tries to make his children’s lives better; in fact, it’s good act. It’s even more good when I saw him admitted that his family was slapped before with the economic sanction. Nevertheless, it’s just humiliated to see the father curses and verbally abuses the neighbor all the times, but he loves to kiss the neighbor’s a$$ for benefit. What a great father! He sacrificed himself for his children! Kakakak … He even secretly sent some of his dearest children to his neighbor’s house to study and getting married and hope for a citizenship in that house.
Nói dài nói dai chẳng qua nói thật! Túm lại là, my point is, nếu anh chị chửi rủa ai thì mần ơn đừng (giả vờ) làm thân đi kiss a$$ người ấy! Còn nếu anh chị quyết làm thân với người ta, có ý định làm bạn với người ta thì mần ơn đừng đi chửi người ta ạ, hay là dạy con cháu mình đi mắng chửi người ta, or else, có ráng cũng gồng mình mà coi đex được mắt tí tẹo nào! Please do it yourself and teach your children what you say/believe! Chả biết mắc cỡ là gì. How’s shame!!!
Join it or leave it, will ya ... kakakak ...
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-- by Tranielle MH
Monday, June 30, 2008
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